UThandolwethu Mokoena uye wazityand’ igila ngobudlelwane bakhe obukhethekileyo nomrepha ongasekhoyo u-AKA
Umdlali weqonga noyintombi kaDJ Pearl Thusi, uThando Mokoena, kutshanje uthethe ngobudlelwane obukhethekileyo awayenabo nomrepha ongasekhoyo uKiernan “AKA” Forbes.
Kudliwanondlebe olunyanisekileyo noRomeo Black kwiTikTok, uMokoena udize ukuba ukuba unokubuyisela nabani na ebomini, ukhetho lwakhe lokuqala iya kuba “ngumalume uKiernan”.
Le rapper eyaphumelela iimbasa yabulawa eDurban ngoFebruwari 10, 2023, kunye nomhlobo wayo ongumpheki uTebello “Tibz” Motsoane.
Umrepha woMzantsi Afrika uKiernan ‘AKA’ Forbes wabulawa ngoFebruwari 2023 eThekwini.
UMokoena wabelana ngokuba ubuhlobo bakhe nalowo wabetha ingoma ethi “Run Jozi” bomelele, ngenxa yobuhlobo obusenyongweni bukamama wakhe kunye naye.
Uthi: “Umalume, uKiernan, wandifundisa izinto ezininzi ngonqulo nentlonelo, yaye wayengomnye uhlobo lukatata endandilufuna ebomini bam.
“Umalume uKiernan akazange ahlekise kum kuba wayendiphatha njengentombi yakhe, ngoko wayezimisele kakhulu.”
Ecinga ngokusweleka ngesiquphe kuka-AKA, wabelana wathi: “Kwakufuneka enze umculo omninzi, wayenezicwangciso ezininzi zokuphumeza kunye nezinto ezininzi ekufuneka zenziwe ebomini, ndiziva.”
Xa ebuzwa ukuba angathini kuye xa enethuba, uMokoena uphendule ngokungafihlisiyo wathi: “Loo nto ndiyabaxabisa (ebhekisa ku-AKA nomnye umalume ongasekhoyo, awayebiza ngokuba nguMthetho nje).
Andiqondi ukuba ndibonise uxabiso ngokwaneleyo xa beselapha, kwaye yinto ekusafuneka ndijamelane nayo ukuza kuthi ga namhlanje. Njenge, andizange ndibaxabisile ngokwaneleyo.
Ebudeni bale vidiyo, uMokoena ukwachaphazele ukukhula engoyena mntwana umdala nangendlela aziva ngayo ngomahluko wokukhulisa abantwana phakathi kwakhe nodadewabo omncinci, u-Okuhle Thusi.
“Ukuba ungoyena mntwana umdala uyakuqonda. Yoh! Uziva ngathi abazali bakho bakuqhatha ngeendlela ezithile. Ngokungathi wawungavumelekanga ukuba wenze oku, okanye kwakubakho iziphumo xa wenze into aze umntakwenu avunyelwe ukuba enze ezo zinto.
“Uziva ngathi abanabazali njengokuba bakukhulisile.
“Ndivakalelwa kukuba baye bakhululeka ngakumbi, kodwa kwangaxeshanye, kuseyithuba labo lokuqala lokuba ngumzali.
Abantwana bahluke, ngoko kufuneka ukwazi ukuqonda ukuba, nangona ulwa nabo, ufana, kulungile, eli lixesha labo lokuqala ukujongana Nale.
Kwakhona, zama kwaye ube nonxibelelwano olunempilo kunye nabo (abazali).
Xa ebuzwa ukuba angayijonga njani na indlela yokukhulisa abantwana ngendlela eyahlukileyo, uMokoena uvakalise uluvo lwakhe ngokuvumela abantwana benze iimpazamo.
“Ndandibavumela ukuba benze iimpazamo. Abazali basoloko bezama ukukunqanda ekwenzeni impazamo abayenzileyo, kodwa awuqondi ukuba wenza impazamo de ibe yenzeke.
“Ke, ndicinga ukubavumela ukuba benze iimpazamo zabo, kodwa kwangaxeshanye, abafuni ukuba udlule kwinto abadlule kuyo.
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Kwividiyo emfutshane, uMokoena uthe: “Andazi ukuba ndingathetha njani ngeemvakalelo zam konke konke, kunzima.
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Njengokuba yindalo yomntu ukuzicinezela, ukuqhubeka, ukuba uhleli kuzo ixesha elide, uya kubambeka kwaye ubomi buza kuqhubeka.
“Awukwazi ukuhlala kwiimvakalelo zakho; kufuneka uye emsebenzini.”
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“Ndikubudlelwane bam bokuqala boluntu. Andiyena umntu othanda ukuba phambi kwekhamera enjalo. Leyo ibe yinxalenye yam yokukhula ubomi bam bonke, ngoko kunzima kum.
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“Andazi ukuba uphi umda ngokuthumela ubudlelwane bam, kuba bubomi bam babucala kwaye andifuni abantu basebenzise loo nto ngokuchasene nam okanye bathethe ngayo kuba yishishini lam, hayi eyakho.”
