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Usapho lakwa Meyiwa lufuna ubudlelwane nentombi kaSenzo

Umnqweno wosapho lakwaMeyiwa wokwakha ubuhlobo nentombi kaSenzo Meyiwa, uThingo, uhlangabezane nenkcaso kanina, uKelly Khumalo.

Nangona iinzame eziphindaphindiweyo zokufikelela, uKelly ubakhanyele ukufikelela kwintombazana encinci, ngoku eneminyaka eyi-10 ubudala.

Umnqweno wolu sapho wokuba nobudlelwane noThingo usukela kwimfuno enzulu yokunxulumana nomntwana wabo bamthandayo nokuqinisekisa ukuba uyalazi ilifa lakhe nezithethe zosapho.

Usapho lukaSenzo lwenze iinzame ezininzi zokunxibelelana noKelly ukuze bakhe ubuhlobo noThingo, kodwa imizamo yabo ayizange iphumelele.

Ngokokutsho kukaSifiso, umntakwabo Senzo, bazamile ukufowunela uKelly izihlandlo ezininzi, kodwa akaphenduli.

Udadewabo kaSenzo, uZama, ungqinile ukuba bagqibelisa ukubona uThingo eneenyanga ezintandathu ubudala kwaye sele bencamile ukuba noKelly.

Umnqweno wolu sapho ukunxulumana noThingo uqhutywa ngumnqweno wokuchitha ixesha kunye nalo lumfundise ngembali nezithethe zosapho lwakhe.

Ubudlelwane obungebuhle phakathi kosapho lakwaMeyiwa noKelly Khumalo bunokubalelwa ziimeko zokubhubha kukaSenzo.

Ukungabikho kukaKelly emngcwabeni kaSenzo kunye nembono yoluntu ngokubandakanyeka kwakhe ekubulaweni kwakhe kwadala ukungavisisani phakathi kwezi ntsapho zimbini.

Ngo-2016, uKelly wathetha kwiReal Talk with Anele Mdoda ukuba usapho lukaSenzo “lungalibala” ngokudibana nentombi yakhe, nto leyo eyandisa imeko.

Nangona kukho imicelimngeni, usapho lakwaMeyiwa luhleli ethembeni lokuba ngenye imini bazokwazi ukwakha ubudlelwane noThingo.

Bakholelwa ukuba kubalulekile ukuba uThingo lwazi abantakwabo, abazala bakhe, oomalumekazi kunye noomalume kwaye baqonde imbali yosapho kunye nezithethe zosapho lwakhe.

Umama kaSenzo, uNtombi, kunye nodade wabo uZama bazimisele kakhulu ukuchitha ixesha noThingo bamfundise ngemvelaphi yakhe.

Iphulo losapho lakwaMeyiwa lokuba nobudlelwane noThingo liqaqambisa ukuntsonkotha kosapho nokubaluleka konxibelelwano.

Ngelixa indlela engaphambili inokuba ngumngeni, kubalulekile ukuba omabini amaqela abeke phambili impilo-ntle yeThingo kwaye asebenzele ukwakha ubudlelwane obuhle.

Ngokwenza njalo, banokuqinisekisa ukuba uThingo lukhula luzazi ukuba ungubani kwaye lunxibelelene nelifa losapho lwalo.