Panuel uthetha ngotata abangondliyo neengxaki zokhulisa abantwana
Podcaster u- Penuel uthethe ngokubizwa ngokuba “ngutata ongenakubaleka,” esebenzisa imidiya yoluntu ukwabelana ngecala lakhe ngengxabano yokukhulisa abantwana ngokubambisana eyaqala kwiminyaka emibini eyadlulayo.
Kwiposi ende kwi-X, uPenuel ucinge ngexesha apho wabhengeza esidlangalaleni ukuba wayeshiya abantwana bakhe ababini emva kokuba, ngokutsho kwakhe.
Umama wabo wamkhanyela ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuba angafikeleli kubo.
Uchaze ukuba isigqibo silandele ukulamla okubini okungaphumeleli enkundleni yosapho kunye nomzamo wokutyelela abantwana abangaphumelelanga.
“Kwiminyaka emibini eyadlulayo, ndabhengeza ukuba ndikhetha ukuba ngumntu ongenakubaleka kubantwana bam ababini.
Kuba umama wabo wayephula amalungelo am okufikelela,” wabhala. “Ndathi ndiza kuhamba ndize ndibambe imali yesondlo, de ndibone abantwana bam.”
U- Penuel uthe wenze esi sibhengezo esidlangalaleni waze wenza nodliwanondlebe nabezindaba, olwathi ngokukhawuleza lwasasazeka.
Kwiiposi ezifanayo, uphawule ukuba ubancoma oomama babanye abantwana bakhe awathi ungowabazali ngoxolo.
Nangona kunjalo, utyhile ukuba emva kweenyanga ezintathu kuphela, imeko kunye nomama okuthethwa ngaye.
Yaphucuka kwaye baqala kwakhona ukukhulisa abantwana ngendlela enempilo, eqhubekayo nanamhlanje.
Uthe ukwabelane ngolu hlaziyo esidlangalaleni, kodwa aluzange lufumane ngqwalasela ingako.
“Elo xesha lifutshane ngoku lisandenza ndibonakale njengomntu ofileyo xa ndingekho,” utshilo, wongeza ukuba iingcaciso eziphindaphindwayo azenzi nto ingako ekutshintsheni indlela abantu ababona ngayo izinto.
UPenuel uthe isizathu sakhe sokuphinda ajonge le ngxaki yayikukugxininisa into akholelwa ukuba ziingxaki ezibanzi zoluntu kunye neenkqubo ezijongene nootata.
Uthethe ukuba amandla okukhulisa abantwana ngendlela enobungozi, iinkundla ezikhetha icala.
Kunye nokugweba okuqatha koluntu kudla ngokusebenza nxamnye namadoda azama ukubakho kubomi babantwana babo.
“Amadoda amaninzi awakwazi ukubona abantwana bawo ngenxa yoomama abanetyhefu. Akukho mntu ugxeka aba mama,” wabhala. “Xa indoda ikhala… ihlaselwa ize ibekwe uphawu ngonaphakade.”
Ukwagxeke indlela amadoda agcina ngayo imali ngenxa yokungafikeleli ebantwaneni bawo adla ngokunyeliswa ngayo ngokuzenzekelayo, ngelixa izikhalazo zawo zingahoywa.
Equkumbela iposi yakhe, uPenuel ugxininise ukuba uyabathanda abantwana bakhe, uyababonelela kwaye uhlala ebandakanyeka kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
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“Amazwi akho angenalwazi ayasilimaza… ayasilimaza kwaye ayasilimaza abantwana bethu,” utshilo, ebongoza uluntu ukuba lubonise uvelwano kunye nobulungisa ngakumbi xa lubandakanyeka kwimiba enjalo ebucayi.
